This community is for subs who have trouble finding their voice. We are here to support each other and to learn from each other. This is a place to help figure out what needs to be done through active ranting. That means you write rants to help figure out what's REALLY bothering you, and then you DO something about it. This is not a haven for victims, you are in ultimate control of your life and you could leave. Most of the time though you want to work on things, at least for a little while. But to do that you need a lot of self knowledge. You need to KNOW what you want and need and you need to ask for it, because as much as you love your dom s/he is not a mind reader. So here's to us finding our voices!